Unfortunately, I hadn't had the experience of having my own child, yet shared in the experience with my sister having my niece. Here's an experience to remember:
The day had finally come, and we could not have been more
excited! After 2 long months of bed rest, my sister was finally checking into Labor
and Delivery at Jeff Anderson Hospital for the birth of her first child Little
Ms. Zion Gabrielle Cole!
I never shall forget 4:00 p.m. on May 23, 2005 (the check in
date). As we got settled in our room, the nurses were busy doing their jobs,
checking blood pressure, asking questions, and handling paperwork. The moment
was surreal to me as well as my sister and her husband, to know in just a few hours we would be wearing titles that
we had never worn before, MOM & DAD, auntie and grandmother! Charged with caring for a precious
gift, and only praying God had already placed everything needed in us to rear
this child.
It was 8:13 p.m. now, our mom had arrived and my sister was getting the
epidural in my back. Not long after that,the entire bottom half of her body was
numb. Her doctor,r Dr. Ronnye Purvis walked in the room and boy were we happy to see
his face, but he came barring bad news. He informed us that my sister had not dilated at
all! He said he would be prescribing medicine to induce her labor, which
would cause her to dilate. I must admit I was terrified at that point and so was she, praying
everything was okay with the little one, but Dr. Purvis assured us this was
something very common, and everything would be fine. After our discussion,
nurses rushed in and begin pumping her body with “Pitocin”. We were encouraged by
the nurses to let her get some rest while the medicine took effect, because she would need her strength for the delivery.
After several checks during the night, her body still was not
dilated enough. It wasn’t until about 12:51p.m. on May 24, 2005 Dr. Purvis gave
the command to rush her to the delivery room. The moment had arrived. After
several grueling hours of pushing and breathing, she finally gave her last push
and out came Zion! The room went horribly silent! Zion was not crying! My sister gazed
into her husband’s face and begin to scream, “Why is she not crying?” “Why is
she not crying?” As tears streamed down her face, I could see doctors and nurses
running over to work on our little baby girl. She and her husband locked hands and
begin to silently pray and within just a few minutes we finally heard the long
awaited cry!! It was like music to our ears! Our little angel had made her
arrival and was doing just fine!
I chose this example because my niece is the only birth that I have ever shared the experience of birth with and for that reason she is so close to my heart. The birth is highly important in the development. Many times problems during the birth can often lead to developmental problems throughout the life of the child. Healthy birth, in most cases, leads to a healthy developmental process.
77 Years Later....She's still our bundle of joy!
The Region that I chose to examine childbirth is Nigeria
In Nigeria, they are struggling to dramatically improve health care for mothers but the country is confronted with many obstacles. From 1990- 2010, 14% of the worlds deaths related to childbearing are in Nigeria. Now Africa's most populous country, with 160 million people, are working to cut the maternal death rate in half by 2015.
A mother of three stated that this is the case because mothers have to have their babies without medical supervision and this is dangerous. They have the children at home because they can not afford healthcare or to give birth in a medical facility. Nigeria's rate - 630 deaths for every 100,000 lives births - in the world's 10th highest. Poverty, isolation, traditions and lack of access to heath care are among the other causes for the high death rate of women during childbirth. I read that if a woman from a poor village starts to bleed excessively during childbirth, she has only hours to live without emergency medical treatment. In many remote villages, modern transportation is not always available and even if it is, many women can not afford to pay the fare. Getting from her from her home to the primary care maybe a huge problem. They can go on a camel, on a donkey or carried by hand on a motorcycle. Then even those who make it to the hospital on time might not be able to get emergency treatment. There may be no nurses and definitely no doctors in most primary health care places, or there is no equipment.
In reading on childbirth in Nigeria, I realized how fortunate we are to have health care and just thinking back to when my niece was being delivered and she was having complication, how we had doctors to reassure us on the procedure they would take and let us know that it would be ok. Even when she had been delivered but we did not hear her crying. They knew exactly what to do to make her ok. It's so unfortunate, not having the medical supervision and even a safe way of getting the hospital. I can absolutely not imagine, being in labor and having to ride a camel or a donkey, or getting to the hospital to find that there is no medical staff there to assist in such a vital part of the beginning of a child's life.
Hello Tajsa, I love your posted it very informative and great story. I did not go to detail on my story but I enjoy your. Sophia
ReplyDeleteI have to admit that I caught myself getting teary over your niece's birth story, it must have been tense but then a huge relief to hear her first cries. I don't have children yet either but I hope to soon. Thank you for sharing, Tajsa!
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